Lack of listening is one of the most common traits of people with a high ego. Their world views will be narrow. They will be contemplating what they have to tell next when others speak and forgets to pay attention to the speaker. Gradually this inattention becomes part of their character that adversely affects their lives. What if we do not listen to our partner? Listening strengthen relationships. It allows us to feel others' experiences which can broaden our perspective. It is like reading a book.